Of course it would come to this.
Not a drop of patience left. Months and years.
The begging and pleading and praying.
What I did was send them both upstairs.
I got the garbage bags and loaded every toy on the floor and not in it proper spot in garbage bags and baskets. Then I put those full baskets and bags in the unused bathroom and locked the door.
Ultimately the fate of those toys rests on the decision lies between the daddy and I. But I would love your opinion too.
PS It was LIBERATING!!!!