Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Fury: Take Two
I was given the opportunity to review the book Fury: A Memoir by Koren Zailckas, author of the best-selling book Smashed: Story of a Drunken Girlhood. I seized the chance to be able to, not only to read Koren's story but to possibly have the inspiration to share my own.
A secret that I carried, and briefly wrote about here, is that I am an angry person. I carry it with me everywhere I go. I smile with the best of them, but deep down my blood boils. Sometimes my anger causes me to lose my breath. The room spins. My anger turns into festering anxiety. It's a vicious cycle.
I grew up in two households filled with leftover anger of divorce. I do blame my parents as well as the circumstance. I enjoyed the days of love and caring and happy picture perfect life. And I prayed and lived in fear during the nights of yelling and rage filled disagreements.
I know that I carry that with me. I know when I spout off over a dirty dish or a sock on the floor, that it is never about that dirty dish or sock. It is about something else. Because I hold it in, the important things that need to be said that are never said.
And as much as my past lends itself to the anger I have today I know it is something I have to learn to control. Anger in itself is not bad, it is an emotion that everyone has to face. What truly matters is what you do with that anger, how you work to resolve it in a healthy way. As I continue my journey I promise to write about it here. One of the many thing's I took from Fury was that we should not shame our anger, that is when we get ourselves in trouble.
Although Fury: A Memoir is not a cure all, or a self-help book, Koren's story, infused with real research and fact, lends itself as a starter to a path of understanding and acceptance. If you are working on your anger issues and are ready to dive head first, I recommend reading Fury: A Memoir.
Disclosure: I received a copy of Fury: A Memoir to read and review, no other compensation was given. The thoughts and stories are my own. Links to the Amazon site are a part of the Associate program, if you click on the link and purchase the book I get a very small %.
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