Whole

I can't even read this story.  It's the fear.
 When someone you know is going through the same changes and this happens you feel this heaviness.
 In your heart
and in your mind
and in your soul.
There is so much change.
 All your thoughts of  who they were
and who they are
and what they were to be
is different.
 But still the same.
  It's this inner battle,
a conflict of your heart.
Because no matter how they dress.
Or who they define this self as.
They are mostly and above all a person you love
with your whole heart.
and your whole soul.
and your whole self. 
You love them whole.